About With Them

We believe the best moments in life happen with other people. With Them exists to help you make those moments better, more often, and more intentionally.

This started with a simple observation: people want to be more present with the people they love, but they run out of ideas. Date nights default to the same restaurant. Gifts default to gift cards. Weekends default to screens.

With Them is a different kind of resource. We write creative, practical guides for people who want to invest in their relationships — romantic partners, friends, family, the people who make life worth showing up for.

What We Cover

Date Nights — Creative ideas for staying connected, whether you've been together three months or thirty years. From at-home cook-offs to outdoor adventures, we believe date night should feel like something you look forward to, not something you check off.

Gift Guides — Thoughtful recommendations for every relationship and occasion. We test products, compare options, and only recommend things we'd actually give to our own people. No filler. No generic "top 50" lists padded with junk.

Things to Do — Weekend plans, group activities, and ideas for being present. Whether it's a girls' trip, a family game night, or a double date, we've got something better than "I don't know, what do you want to do?"

Long Distance — Ways to stay close when you can't be in the same place. Gifts that close the gap, activities you can do together over video, and honest advice for making distance work.

How we make money

With Them is an independently run editorial site. We earn money through affiliate partnerships — when you click a link in one of our guides and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.

This is how we keep the site running without ads, paywalls, or sponsored content that compromises what we recommend. Every product link on this site is something we genuinely believe in. We'd rather recommend nothing than recommend something bad.

For full details, see our Affiliate Disclosure.

Our editorial standards

Every article on With Them follows a few principles: we research thoroughly before we write, we test products when possible, we update guides when things change, and we never recommend something just because it pays a higher commission. Our reputation matters more than any single affiliate sale.

If you have a question, a suggestion, or just want to say hi — reach out at hello@withthem.com.